One of the methods I use to develop my blog ideas, and also in my therapeutic work with clients, is cross-writing. This technique allows me to tap into different parts of my mind—my adult self, my inner child, and even what I sometimes feel is my higher power. Writing with my dominant hand represents the logical, structured side of my thoughts, while writing with my non-dominant hand allows a different, deeper voice to emerge—one that speaks with raw honesty and uncensored emotion.
Through this method, I’ve uncovered some powerful themes that I want to explore here:
- The way society views nudity and how it weaponizes it to shame and punish people.
- How deeply wounded people often lash out at others, creating cycles of pain and false accusations.
- The fact that courts and institutions often fail to acknowledge the damage caused by false allegations.
- The need for men to have spaces where they can openly discuss their struggles—without fear of judgment or shame.
- The role of integrity in our society, and what happens when those in power refuse to uphold it.
These are not just abstract concepts. They are real issues that affect real people every day. And they are worth talking about.
Dr. Arnold Barrett, PhD, LICSW 